Monday, June 21, 2010

Immaturity at it's finest.

It's funny if you think about how immature some people truly are. Grown women who are mothers and wives act so much more immature than high schoolers do.  They claim that they are the ones being mature, yet they're so consumed with creating more and more drama, problems and lies. 

They can't stop, no matter how many times they apologize and say it's over, but it's not, no where near. More like a fake apology to try to get one more jab at you in. They can not for the life of them let things go. They can't move on and realize that they are the ones with the problems. They don't realize that they need to take a long, hard look in the mirror and examine themselves and fix their flaws instead of being hell bent on pointing out others. But because they are such toxic people, they can't see themselves as anything but a victim. Which they create in their own minds. They make up lies, twist the truth, and constantly run their mouths. Then when they are trapped, their friends have realized the person they truly are and stopped being friends with that person, they try to seek forgiveness from the people they betrayed in the first place. These type of people can not be alone or friendless. They have to constantly be in the spot light, all attention on them. From the outside they look and act like a good person and good friend. But inside they are consumed with so much misery, hate and negativity that they want to bring others down to make them feel worse. This allows them to feel better about themselves. It is a never ending cycle.  They don't care about the consequences of their actions. They don't care because they are the "victim" and the person who "betrayed" them is the one that deserves all the pain and suffering that they inflict. 

Such people have been in one place for a short amount of time and have gone through numerous friends. They will sit there and say that it's not their fault that the friendships ended, it's the other person or group that is to blame. They constantly are "making" new friendships. Constantly needing that attention they seek and crave. They will act as if they are the most loyal person you could ever befriend, but the second things don't go their way they will turn on you like a rabid wolf. 

They claim to be mature because of their age, their experience, things they have been through. But they haven't let go of the fact that they can't act like that anymore because of their responsibilities. They will act like they are as tough as they come and are ready to throw down in a physical confrontation without a second thought. But when confronted, they lie and act as if they haven't done anything wrong. 

These people are manipulative, controlling and self-centered. They like to be around people who aren't "emotionally strong". They like to be around people who have had bad things, stupid mistakes, etc happen in their past. That way if there comes a time for confrontation or drama to be started, they have ammo to use against them. They have things that they can spread and twist in their favor. 


These people are the type of people who I have had in my past. That is where they will remain. They have done a lot of very, very awful things to people I care about and my family and I.  It doesn't matter to me what they try to do to me, I am as emotionally strong as they come. But the next time someone I care about or my family is brought up into these types of issues with these types of people, I will not just ignore it this time. I do not accept anyone of these peoples apologies. I tried to but like I pointed out, apologies from these people are fake and full of lies.  

6 readers thoughts:

Sarah Otto said...

OMG girl! I hate people like that!!!! :( & I know WAYYYY too many of them!!!!

Erica said...

Meeee too!! I decided to try to "profile" them. And I think I did a pretty good job!

AmberElizabeth said...

AMEN! You did a wonderful job profiling them! There are a few that come to my mind as I read this!

Erica said...

Thank you! :)

CassiopiaTheOnly said...

I have people like that in my life =( sadly I can't put them in my past. I don't know if I ever will be able to. It's a hard pill to swallow. <3 I shall stalk you now.

Erica said...

Sweeet!! I love stalkers :D I'm sorry you can't put these people in your past. Hopefully it will become a better situation down the road!